How to Plan the Perfect Big Sur Proposal
Romantic Ideas, Scenic Locations & Stress-Free Tips from a Local Photographer
How to Plan the Perfect Big Sur Proposal
Romantic Ideas, Scenic Locations & Stress-Free Tips from a Local Photographer
Thinking about popping the question in Big Sur? You’re choosing one of the most breathtaking and unforgettable places on Earth. With its dramatic cliffs, winding coastline, and glowing sunsets, Big Sur is the ultimate romantic backdrop to ask the love of your life to marry you.
As a local Big Sur proposal photographer who’s captured dozens of heartfelt moments here, I’m sharing everything you need to plan the perfect surprise—from dreamy locations to timing tips and how to keep it all a secret.
Why Plan a Proposal in Big Sur?
Big Sur proposals feel cinematic yet intimate. From towering redwoods to rugged ocean views, you’ll find quiet, romantic corners that feel like they were made just for the two of you. Whether you’re adventurous or prefer something soft and slow, Big Sur sets the scene for an unforgettable “yes.”
Best Places to Propose in Big Sur
1. Garrapata State Park (Soberanes Point Trail)
Sweeping cliffs, wildflowers in spring, and the waves crashing below—a stunning and classic Big Sur engagement location. It’s also easy for your photographer (👋🏼) to stay hidden and capture the surprise without giving it away.
2. Pfeiffer Beach at Sunset
Known for its purple sand and dramatic keyhole arch, this iconic spot is pure magic during golden hour. It’s a bit off the beaten path (down a dirt road), but totally worth it. Be sure to check tides ahead of time.
3. Bixby Bridge Viewpoints
Iconic and dramatic—if your partner loves road trips and epic views, this one’s for you. You can pull off Highway 1 just north or south of the bridge for jaw-dropping scenery.
4. Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park (Redwood Groves)
Propose beneath the redwoods in peaceful, dappled light—it’s like stepping into a fairytale. Ideal for couples who want a forested, romantic escape.
5. Hidden Coves and Bluff Trails
Want total privacy? I offer location scouting to help you find secluded ocean-view trails and secret coves that feel like your own personal paradise.
Best Time of Day for a Big Sur Proposal
Golden Hour (about 1–2 hours before sunset) is hands-down the most flattering light. Everything glows, your photos will be gorgeous, and the moment will feel extra magical.
Early Morning is best if you want privacy and don’t mind the cooler air. Plus, you’ll likely have the spot to yourselves!
Big Sur Proposal Ideas & Tips
1.Bring a Picnic or Champagne
Surprise your partner with a romantic picnic from local favorites like Carmel Belle or The Cheese Shop. Want a luxury touch? I can help you coordinate with local vendors for styled setups, florals, and bubbly..
2.Hire a Proposal Photographer
Whether I’m pretending to be a tourist or hiding in the bushes, I’ll capture the whole moment candidly—and then follow it up with a dreamy engagement photo session.
3.Turn It Into a Weekend Getaway
Make the magic last with a stay at Glen Oaks, Ventana Big Sur or Post Ranch Inn. Pair your proposal with a relaxing retreat.
4.Always Consider Weather + Crowds
Fog, wind, and surprise visitors can show up any time. I’ll help you build a Plan B just in case—like a different time or nearby location.
After the “Yes!”
Celebrate with dinner at one of Big Sur’s most romantic restaurants:
Nepenthe – rustic, cliffside views
Big Sur Bakery – cozy and delicious
Sierra Mar at Post Ranch Inn – for a truly elevated experience
Want more memories? Let’s extend your session into a full Big Sur engagement photoshoot with an outfit change and a second scenic location.
Let’s Plan Your Perfect Big Sur Proposal
Whether you already have a vision or need help crafting the perfect plan, I’m here to guide you through it. I offer:
Location recommendations
Timeline and lighting advice
Proposal planning support
Sneaky candid photography
Engagement photos after the moment
Ready to start planning your Big Sur proposal?
